May 18
If Real dude spiritual leadership starts with getting to know God, then what does KNOWING look like? I hesitate to give any sort of rules or a 3-step plan because I know (all too well) it’s far easier to check off a list than to pursue a relationship, so maybe the first tip simply is this: …
May 08
When Christian husbands hear the words Spiritual Leadership they often cringe and move into an emotionally defensive ninja posture. They cover their ears and hum “nu nun nu nun” to drown out the sound of the “oh so subtle” but fully loaded assault they know their wife is about to lob at them. “Did you …
May 03
There’s one thing I can count on for sure each and every evening –my two-year old Kolby’s non-wavering answer to “What was the best part of your day?” She can barely contain herself as we start Peak and Pit during dinner. “Mama, mama. What about me? Best part is…” “Sshhh sweetie, wait for your turn,” …
Apr 28
I didn’t grow up a Christian. Pagan might be more appropriate title. I thought Jesus was related to Santa and as far as I knew, he lived in the mythical world of leprechaun’s and Easter bunnies. But if I’m honest, I’ve always known God. I just wondered if he knew me. It started in high …
Apr 25
When I was in the hospital a few weeks ago the nurse blew up a plastic glove, drew a carton face on it and handed it over to my two-year old Kolby who promptly named it “Perk.” I like this name –Perk. It’s chipper and cheery –rather an invigorating moniker. It reminds me of strong …
Mar 21
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My middle child’s name is Faith. I thought I gave her this moniker because it affirmed God’s grace and our double fisted faith for her safety during an arduous pregnancy. But God has a sense of humor. I’ve now realized naming your kid Faith is like praying for patience. You never pray for patience because …
Mar 13
I always thought this quote was terrible –“Mothers of Teenagers Know Why Animals Eat Their Young” and yet now I can honestly chuckle and relate. OK, I’ve never really thought about eating my kids but military school and/or a nunnery might be an option. It cracks me up when parents of toddlers and small …
Feb 29
“Excuse me, are you in charge?” I asked the elegant woman who was setting up a serving table of hot pasta and bread. A long line of people snaked around the corner and were already pushing and shoving, impatiently waiting to be fed. I smiled and stuck out my hand which she ignored. “Why? What …
Dec 17
She caught my eye just as I opened the door to my gym locker fresh out of the shower; there stood Mrs. Pharisee in all her fitness glory with pert blonde hair, a haughty sneer and an agenda written all over her face. I furtively glanced around for a place to hide, but my options …
Oct 01
My dear friend Bruce sent me this story in response to my post Helga the Cleaning Nazi. It was a great reminder to keep the main thing the main thing-namely the love of Christ working through me- and to let go of the little crap that get me all riled up and cranky. Bruce Carl Aronson …
